Friday, August 29, 2008

Confessions of a tea addict

My feet walk the same path every morning. I am more predictable than rain in summer.
As soon as my feet have hit the bedroom floor I only have one thought in my head, one goal, and nothing else will satisfy.

The object of my desire lies in the kitchen and I don't think flood, fire or famine would keep me from my morning ritual.
I need tea.



I know I am an addict. We can run run out of bread, potatoes and other important staples but I NEVER run out of tea. Without at least two cups to get me going I am nothing, less than nothing - a heap, a useless lump. There is no point in speaking to me until I have filled me tanks.

Although coffee takes over a couple of times a day, it is tea I rely upon to get me through a phone call, a friend's confession, a hard day at work or just because I fancy one.

I have to face it, I am an addict and I shall be buried in a teapot.

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Culcher

When I was younger I used to moan about living in a county that was so far away from what I considered the nearest hive of trendy culture. Cornwall (the pointy bit hanging off the end of England) was not only the butt of numerous local yokel accent jokes but was also considered to be the epitome of a cultural desert.

It is not until we have visitors (Debi and co, among others) that I begin to wonder what they make of the very individual local culcher that lies between the public face of pasties and clotted cream (local delicacies laden with lard and fat).
Better known for our sleepy villages and dramatic coastline (HERE) , Cornball is also known for the high percentage of artists who migrate here to soak in the clear light and churn out numerous paintings of boats in picturesque harbours. But up-to-the-minute, cutting edge culture - err, maybe not....


We have theatres (if you don't mind sitting out in the weather on the edge of a very dodgy cliff).

and the Tate St Ives is, yes, you guessed, overlooking white sand and sea...


As Debi found out (heh heh - when she was 'funked up' for the night), local bands (HERE) have a huge, age defying following.
Living in a far flung part of the kingdom may have its disadvantages but I don't think we can be accused of not making up the bits that we lack. We may not be trendy but we are enthusiastic!

Monday, August 18, 2008

Dearly beloved...and the rest of you as well

A post over at Bullets in the Mailbox reminded me of something that happened last week...

One of the children I work with was kneeling down in front of the window.
"What are you doing?" I asked.
"Praying for the rain to stop." she said.
"Good idea." I said, hoping that one small child's prayer would halt a whole summer of torrential rain.
I sat with her and added my own prayer for a giant hair dryer.
"Does it matter who I pray to?" she asked.
"Err, no, I don't suppose it does." I said, thinking that maybe Roger the window cleaner wouldn't be much help "Did you have someone in mind?"
"Well, no, not really" she said "but I wondered if I had worn God out because I keep asking him for a Nintendo DS."

After hiding a smile we went on to discuss prayers and like Bullets we came up with a few that were unsuitable for the occasion but it got me thinking about express praying. If prayers are small wishes then here are my five...

Dear Deity of Choice, please could you...
  • fix the leak in the bathroom
  • get rid of me overdraft
  • leave one biscuit
  • find all the lost socks
  • oh, and find a bit of love for me
Thank you.


Over to you....

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

The witch and the vicar – a tale a blinkered perceptions.

“But I’m a witch” said the witch.

“I know that” said the constant friend “but it will be all right.”

It wasn’t going to be all right, it was never all right. People with titles like that had attitudes they had no right to possess. Titles led to trouble – it was the law.

The witch bit her lip. Biting lips was a hazard of an occupation that involved avoiding anything to do with dog collars, smells, bells, heaven and hell. As far as the witch was concerned there were far too many blinkered donkeys in the world who failed to see even one side of the coin let alone the five brilliant points of a misinterpreted star.

“My friends are not like that.” said the smilingly smug constant friend.

The witch raised a practised eyebrow and treated her knowing friend to a smirk and said “I know but all the same I will leave my heathen symbols at home and won’t mention stuff that could cause fights that involve hospital visits – promise.”

It was always best to keep your head down when the spiritual bullets were flying – less wounds, less blood all round.

The last time the witch had encountered a man of the cloth there had been much teeth gnashing, fist clenching and general discomfort. The cloth man had gone a weird shade of puce and removed the biscuit tin so as not to prolong the visit. The witch had raised both practised eyebrows and consigned the man from the God Squad to the same place that the biscuits had gone. Once again, the refusal to acknowledge that the world was full of paths, many paths, had rattled her belief in her own humanity. He had failed miserably to see that her pointy boots could possibly share the same road as his be-socked, be-sandaled feet. Yes, really, not only a blind donkey but also a bad dresser - just another reason to remain resolutely pagan when all around there were the blue flashing lights of the fashion police. Vanity was a failing that she had long since come to love.

So, surprises were not on the agenda. The witch would play the game by their rules and everything would be lovely but unfortunately the Gods and Goddesses were having a party in the kitchen along with the biscuits and had decided that ‘Boo!’ was the word of the moment. The witch raised more than just her cynically poised eyebrows, matching her mouth to the shape of someone who had just been shot in the ass with the surprise bullet.

“But?” she spluttered “I am a witch of the world. My stripy socks know exactly where the ground is and my pointy pagan hat is shock absorbingly shockproof.

“Mmm hmm” the constant friend said “I did tell you.”

Being told was different to experiencing. This man of the cloth was a man of all worlds. His eyes were so open that they were positively lidless. Not only was he smiling openly when the ‘p’ word was mentioned but his was also adding, not only his ten penneth, but the rest of the index linked inflation since the dawn of the groat. Acknowledgement and understanding from this mono-god follower was definitely hitting an itch that the witch had not been able to scratch for quite some years.

Funny really, lessons came in the most surprising bottles of potions and the taste of this particular medicine was all together the sweetest that she had tasted for a very, very long time.

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Moral - never judge a man by his collar and never judge a witch by the height of her very nice new pointy boots.


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Saturday, August 09, 2008

For Jo


When we are old, have lost our minds,
and too much history lurks behind,
the tea we share instead of gin,
and going out means staying in.

We'll laugh still, at our beige adventures,
and help each other find our dentures,
that fill our aging, sagging cheeks,
and the glasses, missing for weeks,
that lurk beneath your spreading ass,
lost in chintzy, cushioned gas.

You and I will face the end,
knowing that we had a friend,
who once danced naked in the rain,
when life was running down the drain.

So, we'll reminisce over spent seasons,
and piss our pants for other reasons,
because friendship stands when love falls down,
and red will still be our painted town,
but I bagsy that lacy dressing gown.

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Tuesday, August 05, 2008

The economy of truth

I waved madly as Big Fecker's plane disappeared into the fog and made my way out of our local 'international' airport with a scowl on my face.

I AM NOT A LIAR. No, no, I was just not elaborating on certain facts.

"I just hope it goes smoothly." he said earlier, as we waited at the check-in.
I desisted from pointing out the meccano sets that are used to fix the darling little planes and made no mention of the rope burns he would sustain in order to get the plane aloft.
"You'll be fine." I said, employing my best mum-knows-best voice, but the truth is that I am not terribly well travelled. I've hopped about Europe a bit and explored many different modes of transport but have never done what my fecker has done.
I have flown - plane, helicopter, hot air balloon, into a rage, but I have never done it on my own and here I was convincing him that 'firsts' are always exciting. Liar, liar, drawers on fire!

The phone call from my eighteen-year-old tonight in deepest Germany, let me know in a very confident voice that flying was amazing and that everything was cool and what was I worried about?
So was omitting the facts a good idea, or should I have confessed that his mother is a chicken shit?

Ah well, I haven't told him about the bargain ticket I managed to get for the return journey. What do you think? More lies?

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Friday, August 01, 2008

Don't it feel good?

To sometimes stick yer ass to the wind and refuse to conform!